Whatever religion you choose, there is an Oldest Parent.
The Christian and Jewish religions have a special ancestor appreciation event.
Exodus 30:14 (Bible and Tanakh)
Every one that passeth among them that are numbered, from twenty years old and above, shall give an offering unto the LORD.
Our Oldest Parents love you very much, and even if you are not a Christian or a Jew, submitting a gift to your Oldest Parent(s) is a good and mature bonding experience.
It can be done once to fulfill the request, or a higher amount to show even more love.
If you have ever curiously wondered if the Oldest Parents want a gift from you, I can tell you, you are their child and creation, they love you, have fun bonding with them through making an offering.
Getting help from your family or a church may help you to achieve this goal.
This is meant to be a fun event. Fun to design the gift, fun to share, and fun to get a thank you.
Your relationship with our the ancestor(s) is personal and the way you build up that friendship is something you can keep forever.
❤ I wish you much luck and love with your gift ❤
Let me tell you somethings to help you.
You are smart, you are good, you are worthy, you are unique, you are their child, and they will love your gift.